You are always welcome here

June 24, 2019 2 min read 10 Comments

Over the years we've has lots of people in the shop wanting to learn to knit. Some of them are actually beginners, but most are not, and the conversation usually starts with something like, "Well, I know how to knit, but I'm doing it all wrong. I want to learn the right way. The right way. In my universe, there is no right way to knit. And, the converse is also true: there is no wrong way to knit.  Some people hold their yarn in left hand, others in their right.   Picking, throwing, left-hand,.right-handed, whatever, it's all good.

In our last Cocoknits class, we had a student who said she knit backwards.  She worked from her right needle to her left, and her stitches sat with their right leg over the back.  I must admit, I was a little uncomfortable. All my talk about how it's all good and whatever you want to do is fine went right out the window.  What If I couldn't teach this student?  This class included a fairly complicated set of terms and techniques that relied on the students' understanding of conventional stitch placement. Simple words like before and after take on subtle new meaning when you're working in a different direction. I I'm embarrassed to admit that my first response was perhaps not my finest moment. In my fear about being able to teach this lovely student, I warned, You're going to have a little trouble in this class."   She replied happily "No, I'll just flip everything around. And so she did. And she was fine. 

It is always a challenge when we are presented with things that are very different from our experience, from our expectations.  The greater the difference, the greater the challenge.  I believe, it is more important to focus on how we are alike than how we are different -- on what brings us together rather than what drives us apart.  To quote journalist, Geraldine Brooks,

There are always a few who stand up in times of communal madness and have the courage to say that what unites us is greater than what divides us".

Let us come together as knitters, as yarn lovers, as artists and artisans.  Let us focus on our love of craft, respect for one another, and the community we share.  You, whoever you are, whoever you are becoming, whoever you love, and however you choose to love them, are always welcome here.  ~Ellen

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10 Responses

Tami Entzian
Tami Entzian

June 30, 2019

Beautiful, as always! True in so many ways!

Ellen Lewis
Ellen Lewis

June 26, 2019

Thank you all for your warm comments. Cathy, it was indeed you to whom I was referring in the Cocoknits class 😀 I’m so glad you enjoyed your day here. I learned a lot from you too ❤️

Cathy Blackwood
Cathy Blackwood

June 25, 2019

Ellen,
I loved this, and the class. I think you were speaking about me, the lefty, and learned so much from you during the class.
I learned a long time ago how to interpret knitting patterns for my left handed, continental style. It intrigues many.
Can’t wait to come by again.
Cathy

Joyce Judd
Joyce Judd

June 25, 2019

Loved your warm message. Wish I was a knitter but I’m not precise enough. Do you do abstract knitting?
Joyce

Joyce Judd
Joyce Judd

June 25, 2019

Loved your warm message. Wish I was a knitter but I’m not precise enough. Do you do abstract knitting?
Joyce

Glenda Easton
Glenda Easton

June 25, 2019

Although I live across the river in VA, I have visited your shop on a few occasions and found it warm and inviting. Thanks you for welcoming all!

Jana Edge
Jana Edge

June 25, 2019

You are so eloquent, I love that you wrote this and found that quote. Thank you! I miss you all, you’re in my thoughts whenever I pick up my needles.

Angela
Angela

June 25, 2019

Beautifully written and very timely! Thank you! I always enjoy my time around the table!

Dee
Dee

June 25, 2019

Well said. Someone please send that to Ravelry.

Amy Henderson
Amy Henderson

June 25, 2019

Well done. I always feel welcome there. :-)

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